One of the best things you could ever come across
in life is when people greet you without knowing
who you are. There will be a different taste to that
friendship that you hardly know anything about.
It’s a relationship that you and only you
accomplish, not with people that you know, but
with an entire society. Sometimes it comes with
fame and at others times fame will have nothing to
do with it. There is a sweet taste in knowing that
you are loved by people who do not know you. It
could be the highlight of your day someday.
When you see the people around your house
walking around and waving to you with a smile on
their faces, or saying nice things to you when they
pass by, you will feel great. You will feel as if you
have accomplished something even if you are poor.
It comes when you do the little good things you do.
When you help an old lady cross the street, you
gain a lot of respect. Whether someone sees you or
not, you do it for good. It comes to you when you
help a little kid or just pat his head.
It’s all about how you present yourself to be. If you
are look scary, it doesn’t really matter. Looking
scary can be something good especially if you are a
nice person. When people fear you, it’s something
different. Fear comes from within, but the way you
present yourself to be is the way you are. If you
help people out then people will help you out when
you need help. If you are rude to people then people
will be rude to you. Your attitude is one of the
major aspects of your personality and the way you
are treated.
Many people complain about how others don’t
seem to like them, but when it comes to whether
they like people or not, it becomes completely
insignificant to them. One who treats others the
way they would like to be treated usually get the
good treatment back and ones who do horrible
things often end up the way they were treating
others. You could have a scar across your face that
makes people flee away from you and yet you find
them treating you with a smile because most of
people believe that appearances are not necessary
unless it comes to a romantic side of their life.
If you want to end up having good things in life, if
you want to end up with a smile on your face by the
end of each day then you should fix the bad things
you do. Apologizing is a huge deal when it comes
to pride, but at the end, a great satisfaction comes
when you know that no one is upset with you. It’s
honorable when you admit your mistakes and it’s
even more honorable when you help someone who
needs your help. It all starts with how you act.
DR. AYO OLOGUNLEKO CHARITY FOUNDATION 